Training & Speaking
An experienced trainer who speaks from the heart
15 years ago, I stood in front of my first audience
I speak from experience and from the heart
I’m humbled to have spoken to thousands of people over the years. And thousands of people have lived better lives as a result.
I’ve trained and presented to business professionals, teachers, parents and students. Counselling, Therapeutic Parenting and using a DDP PACE approach are my specialist areas of expertise.
I also teach and speak about mental well-being and personal development for audiences who want to reduce anxiety and increase confidence through understanding and managing their feelings and emotions.
Read more about my speaking journey below..
How I conquered my fear.
I was absolutely petrified of speaking in front of people. I couldn’t even look people in the eye – how could I speak in front of them?
I knew that if I could overcome my fear, I could show up differently in the world.
I began with very small steps. Saying one or two shaky words in meetings, offering to do a small presentation, then a small workshop. My knees were knocking and my face was like a beetroot. It was scary and difficult, but I did it.
There were many embarrassing moments, but I kept going – ‘Feel the fear and do it anyway’ was my faithful mantra.
And then it happened, someone asked me what I thought for the first time in a meeting. They asked me! It was all beginning to pay off.
I booked onto a speaking workshop.
When I walked in the room I felt like a fraud… but by the end of the day I gave my final talk to the whole group. Filled with adrenaline, I actually began to enjoy it.
I joined a speakers club who kindly and patiently encouraged me to be myself and tell my story from the heart.
I entered the club competition, just for a laugh, and I won! I went through to the next round of the Yorkshire Dales area competition. I won again! Next round beckoned: Yorkshire district. I spoke about the power of empathy… and yes, won again.
I went all the way to the national finals in London. Sadly, I didn’t win, but I had conquered my fear and found my love of speaking on the public stage.
Would you like me to speak or deliver training?
Training and talks I can deliver:
Finding the Calm Within: For women who think too much and feel too little.
90 Seconds to a Life You Love: How Feeling Your Feelings Creates Confidence, Calm & Emotional Freedom.
How to Pause Instead of Panic: Why we get stuck in fight-or-flight, how to reclaim your emotion stability with practical tools people can use that same day.
Emotions Are Messengers: How ignoring feelings disconnects us from real selves, and how tuning into them changes everything.
From Coping to Living: Why so many outwardly successful people feel empty inside, and the path back to purpose, joy and self-connection.
So inspiring..
Course Leader for the FdA SMLE & SMLEY) Bradford College, D16 Lister Building