Core Emotions

Core Emotions

Much of the work I do with clients is helping them to get reacquainted with their feelings.  Often they’ve become disconnected from their core emotions, due to early childhood trauma, bullying and/or difficult relationships. Sometimes it’s because they...
Where is your locus of control?

Where is your locus of control?

This week we are exploring the locus of control.  Sometimes called the locus of evaluation.  What on earth is that I hear you ask! So here it is. Our locus of control is determined by how we make decisions.  Do you make decisions about what to do...
Is Self-Love Selfish?

Is Self-Love Selfish?

There was a time when I really believed that self-love was selfish and wrong.  Big headed, self-indulgent, show-offs are the words that would come to mind.  They are words that my own ears would hear many times and sadly, words that I came to use...